The nature of long distance.

Matt is selling his house. (or it is sold)

He is looking at houses elsewhere/ here.

I just had this conversation with him on g-chat regarding this: Matt: :) This is going to be fun looking for one:)
Sent at 12:54 PM on Tuesday
me: yeah.
I guess.
will you live ther.
and pick me up for dates.
:)
in your car.
Sent at 12:56 PM on Tuesday
Matt: is that like a dream for you?
me: well. I feel like I haven't been on very many dates.
and not really any dates with you.
;)
we have spent all of our time together, more or less,living in the same place together.
like... Beaver Creek.
Africa
etc.
Sent at 1:00 PM on Tuesday
me: Is that weird.
?
Matt: oh. I get it I will become more mysterious and call you to go on dates.
Sent at 1:02 PM on Tuesday
me: ha
well.
no
nevermnid
Matt: I think we are perfect.
:) im in love with you

Do you get my point?

Because we never see each other unless one or the other of us is visiting the other-- we never actually go on dates-- because he is staying at my house- or I am staying at his house. As a result, I never fix up and meet him at the door looking cute. Instead he is brushing his teeth while I am standing in front of the mirror with my mouth open putting on eye liner.

We both look at each other and say "you look nice" "so do you"

and go somewhere.

Am I nuts?

Am I like the nuts-o woman I heard bashing her husband because he never bought her a necklace and put it on her neck at a restaurant on their special day? "he almost got it right.. he got me a piece of jewelry last year and we went to a restaurant-- but all i want is for him to put it on me at the restaurant-- is that that complicated" Oy, I thought.